What an easy way to make a list of resolutions, right? I have lots of changes to make this year, and sometimes it can be overwhelming to think of a list of resolutions in one giant chunk. I think that’s part of the reason so many resolutions fail–it’s just too much all at once. I like how this list gives you just nine very specific things to focus on.
A bad habit I’m going to break…Spending money for the hell of it because I’m bored or sad. I’ve never been one to spend money I can’t afford to spend, and I don’t carry a credit card, so it’s not that I get myself into financial hard spots with frivolous spending. It’s just that I have a really bad tendency to say, “I’m bored and I had a crappy night at work. I think a trip to (Target, the bookstore, ULTA) is just the thing I need.” And while $20 doesn’t seem like a lot, it really adds up at the end of the year to a houseful of stuff I don’t really need and a chunk of cash I would have preferred to spend on a big-ticket item, like a vacation or a piece of furniture. I’m going to do a longer post on this later, but 2014 is going to be a year of minimal buying, partly to save money, partly to save myself from an avalanche of unneeded stuff, and partly so I can learn better ways to cope with dissatisfaction (a bike ride, reading a book, etc.).
A new skill I’d like to learn…I want to improve my yoga. I have a lot of problems with back pain and I think this will do wonders for my physical health, as well as my mental well-being.
A person I hope to be more like…I don’t like to pick out one person as a role model. I think there are a lot of reasons not to model yourself after a single person, but rather to look at the traits of a group of people you admire and emulate the things they do that you admire.
A good deed I’m going to do…I don’t talk much about stuff like this because I feel like good deeds, charity or what-have-you should be a bit more private. But I do have a couple of things in mind for 2014.
A place I’d like to visit…I don’t have a particular place in mind, but I do have a general goal of getting out of the house more. I’m hugely introverted and my idea of a good day off is snuggling under a blanket with tea, a book and my cats. I want to get out to go new places, do new things, and see new people. I don’t think being introverted is a bad thing, by the way, and I wear my badge proudly; I just know that for myself personally, my love of hiding in the house can sometimes cut me off from new and fun experiences, and I don’t want that.
A book I’d like to read…Anna Karenina, by Leo Tolstoy. I’ve always been scared away by the idea that it must be really long and hard to read, I suppose simply because it’s a classic, and we all know that classics are scary with a capital S. But I finally bought it and stuck it on the shelf, so no more excuses.
A letter I’m going to write…I’m going to write a letter to my future self and tuck it away to be opened on January 1st, 2015. I think it will be really interesting to read it and see what goals and plans I had and how I achieved them.
A new food I’d like to try…I want to be more experimental with my cooking in general. I tend to get in a rut and not try out new recipes, even when I’m bored to death with the food available in the house.
I’m going to do better at…Exercising daily. I tend to get into these modes of either exercising daily and feeling very proud of myself, or not doing it at all and loathing myself. With all of the other things in my life that eat up time and energy, it can be really hard to stick to an exercise routine, so this year I’m going to try for a simple fifteen minutes each day throughout the month of January. Obviously I can do more, but this is just a basic benchmark to hit on even the really busy, exhausting, I-can’t’possibly-do-one-more-thing kind of days. I think doing something daily will make me feel better physically and will make the routine easier in the long run.
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