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    Thought Questions, day 80: What small act of kindness were you once shown that you will never forget?

    I got these questions from Danielle’s blog Underland to Wonderland, where I came across a post in which she talked about the website Thought Questions and their 365 thought-provoking questions to ask yourself. My friends Katrin, Celeste and Jasmine have also been answering these questions, so be sure to go check out their blogs too!

    Day 80: What small act of kindness were you once shown that you will never forget? When I was eighteen, I was struggling to make my paycheck stretch each month and as a result I took the free city bus to work each day so I wouldn’t have to waste money on gas. It was okay, except that if you missed the bus you had to wait a good 90 minutes for the next one. Keep in mind that at the time I was working two full-time jobs, which left me pretty pooped, and the bus ride itself (it takes a really loooooong loop around three towns) is also 60 to 90 minutes, so that wait was enough to just about kill me.

    One day I got delayed at work with customers and missed the bus by just a couple of minutes. For whatever reason, I think I didn’t have a phone at the time or something, I didn’t have anyone to call for a ride. Anyway, I sat down to wait, and not ten minutes later, one of my coworkers (who had left for the day) pulled up at the bus stop. She explained that after she’d gotten home she had wondered whether I had managed to catch the bus and decided to drive back to make sure.

    It was about enough to make me cry. I barely knew this girl, and she certainly didn’t know anything of my schedule or how much her kindness meant to me. I’m sure she didn’t think of it as a big deal but it’s always stuck in my mind. Now when I see someone who needs a little help, I double-check to make sure they’ve gotten it. People won’t always ask for help or will brush it off the first time; it’s always worth taking a few minutes to go back and make sure they’re managing okay.

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    Thought Questions, day 79: What do you imagine yourself doing ten years from now?

    I got these questions from Danielle’s blog Underland to Wonderland, where I came across a post in which she talked about the website Thought Questions and their 365 thought-provoking questions to ask yourself. My friends Katrin, Celeste and Jasmine have also been answering these questions, so be sure to go check out their blogs too!

    Day 79: What do you imagine yourself doing ten years from now? Hopefully, working as a writer and traveling a good deal around the world.

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    Thought Questions, day 78: Is it more important to do what you love or to love what you are doing?

    I got these questions from Danielle’s blog Underland to Wonderland, where I came across a post in which she talked about the website Thought Questions and their 365 thought-provoking questions to ask yourself. My friends Katrin, Celeste and Jasmine have also been answering these questions, so be sure to go check out their blogs too! 

    Day 78: Is it more important to do what you love or to love what you are doing? I think that’s a tricky one. Certainly it’s important to do what you love, but you can’t always do so (for example, I do have to trade in binge-reading to go to work!), so perhaps learning to love what you’re doing is more important, since it reflects an attitude adjustment.

    On the other hand, I would hate to trick myself into thinking I love something that’s sub-par and therefore “settle for less” instead of pushing ahead for bigger and better things. I think you need to balance seeing the bright spots in less-than-optimal situations with the ambition to move on.

    Or maybe I’m overthinking the prompt today.

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    Thought Questions, day 77: Where would you most like to go and why?

    I got these questions from Danielle’s blog Underland to Wonderland, where I came across a post in which she talked about the website Thought Questions and their 365 thought-provoking questions to ask yourself. My friends Katrin, Celeste and Jasmine have also been answering these questions, so be sure to go check out their blogs too! 

    Day 77: Where would you most like to go and why? New Zealand! I’ve wanted to go there since I was a teenager. I think it’s beautiful!